As you all said...the heart will know. And it did. It knew that Mr. President just wasn't the boy for us. He was handsome and charming, but there wasn't a spark...so the search continues. Thank you sooooo much for your wonderful comments and stories. I loved reading about everyone's searches and their finds...this all means so much to me. I do know that when the right kitty/cat comes along it will be clear. You will, of course, be the first to know!!